… and to have learnt from the experience. It’s the world – or your God, or the Universe, whichever you prefer – teaching you how to cope with the various obstacles and situations that come your way.
And what I saw happening to a friend, was what I had painfully experienced for myself and came out a better woman – with knowledge of how to handle it if the need arises.
I’m not saying I’m smart. I’m just saying that I’ve been there, done that, and am now a better person because of it.
But of course, there are always those who never learn.