Of the local educational system, to be able to produce dimwits incapable of simple sentence structuring.
Of language itself. Wasn’t it said that with communication, ties will forge and deepen? So why is it that misunderstandings rise from nothing? Is it strictly due to the stupidity of one party?
Of humanity itself. Whatever happened to “live and let live”?
Of humility. The capability of being a crass anonymous curser who allegedly accuses someone of being “inconsiderate” when itself (due to unknown gender, but probably female) is intruding on another’s online space and assuming wrongful things about the owner.
Of living a life, partaking in daily activities necessary for survival and/or maintanence. How is it possible that someone is actually idle enough to check back on comments constantly?
Of generally just being human. To know that emotions are natural in all beings, irregardless of human or else. To not be able to empathise with the simple fact that another has negative feelings as well, somehow makes one inhumane.
Nonetheless, I do not report to you in any way at all. Use God’s name in vain to accuse and cast stones, and you will be the one to receive judgement.
shelled & deshelled 
indeed i really NEED to go school liao.
thank you for your concern.
bless u deep deep.
and yes, GOD can see…
oh ya and Merry CHRISTma to you!
eh… you never answer if baby is as smart as me
Shell says: How I know? Can do IQ tests on unborn baby??
it’s rather confirmed that she will have a retard, a baby with 2 sex organs or still-born.
for your information, when i was pregnant with my first child, we knew the gender on my 14th week. my second one was also the same thing. both my kids were shy at that time and we weren’t able to see the genitals. but my doc was able to tell by the structure of my two girls’ spine.
you should be talking to more mothers and they will tell you the same thing. now my sis-in-law is pregnant, 12th week and we already know she has a girl.
no matter how much you read, you will be a dumb mother.
and for fuck’s sake, stop your whining.
when people ask, they’re concern or at least curious.
yes, i agree this is your blog… since you can’t take comments or questions, turn off the comments section.
failure equals to you and no one else.
hi shelly, long time reader but first time commenter.
i always felt that blogging is personal and that we’re free to write WHATEVER THE HECK we want to write concerning our personal lives.
goodness, this anonymous fella must be really bored. from your previous entries even *i*, someone who doesn’t know you personally is able to guess that since you’re so excited about being a mom you’d wanna share the news of the baby the moment you find out.
maybe you should just screen your comments. troublesome, but at least you can happily delete this fella’s comments away easily.
did you even ask her how many weeks is she in?
and if you’re a mother, and so evil and mean (I’m referring to just the first sentence – that is a personal attack), I feel for your kid. I wonder what will your kid think if she knows that this comment came from you.
btw, just because the comment page is not disabled or screened doesn’t mean that you have a right to go ahead and just insult the person. It’s the same as leaving your windows open for the scenery, and someone spits in.
Yes, Shelly is whiney but still it doesn’t give you any rights to curse her baby, you disgusting specimen of whatever breed you are.
I think everyone knows how many months pregnant shelly is. There’s a table that shows.
Personal opinion, Shelly is really damn whiney. I’m one of those who asked her for the gender of haebee and she put it off not very nicely. I’m just not sure how and when to even ask how’s she or how’s haebee without getting not-very-nice-messages from her.
It’s obvious Shelly is one (or rather, everyone) loves good attention and concern from people around us. But when she gets it… She just wants to put people off (again). This isn’t Shelly’s first time and I don’t think anyone deserves it.
Of ‘cos, I know Shelly. Though we’ve never met but I thought she’s kinda cool when we chat online. I wasn’t upset with her rather usual outbursts. I was more like, “Just what shelly wants to hear from us”?
I’m not a mother myself, thus I don’t know much about pregnancy. My friend who’s pregnant for 3 months told me she’s having a boy after some tests last Satursday. I was shocked to know that. And she told me, “Technology is advanced these days, can tell boy or girl by now already.” With that, I thought most preggos will know by 3rd or 4th month.
I really don’t think I should go read up a book before I ask Shelly a question. This is totally absurb. If Shelly’s vexed about receiving the same question all the time, she can just ignore it. But she has to reply me not very nicely and followed by an entry about it.
Like Wei ever told her not to touch cat’s shit or something, shelly could have said “noted and thank you”, but she just gotta say something like, “I know already.”
Sometimes, I just want to say, “Wow, Shelly you’re so smart… Knows everything.”
Shelly’s just not very appreciative to people’s care and concern.
haha isn’t right to have cursed her, that I agree.
Now, as much as you people may not agree with what I said, but this is definately how I feel.
kierra: u can “skip” tat part of knowing her n REAL, cos you have “MET” her liao..
indeed she is SMART in a way, but towards ppl’s feeling.. i dun need to say much…
again there is a line for her “ZHONG YUAN NI ER” – direct translate means “sincere advice usually is not so nice to listen”.. just too bad..
haha: u do not NEED to drag in baby..he/she is nothing got to do with her attitude…..
ok i need to go for ang moh class.
bless u.
erm…fyi, it’s “zhong YAN ni er” btw…
oppss… i need to attend deng lang class also.
thanks 🙂
Kierra:
Yes, it’s true that there are some tests to determine the sex of the baby. Some are blood tests. However, not every pregnant mother goes for these tests. For ultrasound, yes, it’s possible that as early as 3 months to detect. However, usually it can take up to 5 months to detect the gender of the baby. A recent preggo friend of mine found out the gender at 4 months. It also depends on how cooperative the baby is. Haebee, well, likes to wave. haha.
Personal opinion: no, you’re right that Shelly’s not one of those girls where sunshine, bunnies and rainbows follow her trail (I seriously know people like that). But she has her character. Mind you, I also kenna a sharp retort (and I mean sharp) when I asked her the gender of the baby. But knowing her, it was obvious that she was either in a bad mood, or that she kenna this question too many times, which I could understand.
How many times can she ignore a question, to be honest? Then people would say that she’s dao, etc. I guess there’s no pleasing everyone.
Thank you, really about that comment on haha. Debates aside, there is no need for personal vicious attacks. That is at least fair.
Ah well, no one said that Shelly’s one of those dames! hahaha. I think if one said that she’s like this, she might just puke. Flawed as she is (like all of us), she does have her good points (like all of us). She may not be the erm, most polite, of people, but you certainly can’t call her fake!
Heh.
Excited to know that “tawkeh” is going to be a papa. If I have the $$$ I will come down to pay u guys a visit… -Wilson
She is who she is. If you can’t accept the way she is, then just leave it.
Don’t have to leave mean comments. If you can’t control your own emotions towards what she blogged/whined about, then click on the X button on the top right corner. I suppose most of you guys don’t know shelly in real so u can simply “walk away” and “ignore”.
So what’s the big fuss about? Leave her alone people, she needs the fussing and whining. It’s the hormones man. Jeez.
Please stop harassing her, thank you very much.
This is Shell’s blog, let her blog whatever she wants, if u’re not happy bout what she blogged about then please DO NOT READ anymore and just buzz off =)
To all haters out there : If you ever go “LOLZ UR A NOOB”, I’d track down your specific IP, take out the kitchen knife, disect your limbs, stuff fruits down your throat, roast it and serve it warm. Mmkay? ^_^
sheeeeeeelllly…
ignore those who are narrow minded!!
*hugs* :p
my chinese teacher back in secondary school told me before, “If you do not respond or acknowledge the opposite party’s cursing and swearing, he/she will only be doing so at him/herself”
and, well, looking at the comments… hahahaha !to haha